Wow, okay. Trying to track this: having an inquiry is now considered hostile and responding to something that you say doesn’t apply to me is no longer allowed unless I embark on a re-read with deeper introspection. Seems I’m accused being overly sensitive, and then I’m utterly insensitive. Welll…. I’m still going to be nice to people as a default, whether I genuinely care or not and whether it’s considered “overly nice” or not by someone else’s definition which I cannot control. But thank you for your perspective! ←too nice?